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Thé Noir Rose's avatar

Beautifully written piece, truly inspiring and a great reminder for me. As the years toll on, I find myself becoming more and more "hard-hearted" in terms of work. I used to get overcome by sympathy for every single person who came to me for help [at work], I made their problems into my responsibility, before I realized, work had taken a heavy toll on my mental health. I no longer had the bandwidth or patience for much else outside of work, I was always stressed and frustrated even with my closest friends. It felt like I was immortally drowning in an endless sea of misery.

For sanity's sake, I had to fundamentally change my mindset. I learned to draw a firm boundary between work and my own feelings, I no longer extend unnecessary sympathy towards every single person who comes to find me. I had to put my own well-being first so I could better serve others.

This article was a great reminder of how maybe now is the time for me to re-evaluate my own situation and have greater compassion towards the people who cross paths with me in life.

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IDgital's avatar

True man, without compassion a warrior uses his energy desrtuctively toward wha he loves, and what needs protection.

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